What if we stop having something to say?

2 min read

Imagine writing a birthday message for someone you’ve known for ten years.

You open AI.

A few seconds later, the message is ready. Warm, thoughtful, all the right words. You send it.

But somewhere in those ten years, there was probably a terrible joke, a difficult evening, or something only the two of you would understand. You never stopped to remember it.

I wonder what happens if we keep skipping that small effort of looking inside ourselves.

We have help with almost everything now. What to write. What to draw. How to explain a feeling. I understand the appeal. Sometimes you’re tired, stuck, or need somewhere to begin.

But what if asking becomes our first response to everything?

Before sitting with a question. Before making an awkward attempt. Before noticing something for ourselves.

J.K. Rowling says the idea for Harry Potter came to her during a delayed train journey in 1990. She then spent years developing and writing it. I keep thinking about that distance between a thought on a train and a world that millions of people could imagine.

Or take Stan Lee and Jack Kirby creating the Fantastic Four in 1961. Something we now recognise as part of a huge fictional universe was once work being figured out and put onto comic pages.

It makes me wonder how many ideas need time to become interesting. How many we might abandon because an instant answer already looks good enough.

A tree outside your window changes slowly. An evening sky lasts a few minutes. Neither comes with a summary explaining why you should care. You have to give it some attention.

I worry we might become impatient with things that take that long. Including our own thoughts.

In creative work, I can imagine generating twenty directions before knowing what I wanted to explore. Choosing becomes easier. Knowing why I chose something still takes effort.

There’s plenty I’d happily let a tool help me build. I still want to bring something of my own to it.

Maybe that means keeping a few small habits. Trying the sentence myself. Looking outside. Following an idea for a while before asking for a better one.

If we get used to asking AI what to say, what happens to the things we would only discover by trying to say them ourselves?

A thought in return

If we get used to asking AI what to say, what happens to the things we would only discover by trying to say them ourselves?

Sent privately to Sandith.0 / 500 words